I wish you knew the impact that one good friend can make when nothing is right at home. I was at a really bad place in my life, my dad was in jail for the nth time and I had just started high school. My life was in ruins – nothing seemed to fall in place. I stopped going to class, I started rebelling, and I became obsessed with guys (not actually, I just wanted to fit in). I was acting out because I was in pain, the world didn’t make sense.

heart friendshipI had a friend, who showed unwavering confidence in my abilities. She knew of my situation at home and she kept telling me that she knew I could I be an honour student. It was the most ridiculous idea I had ever heard especially because I had almost failed every class I took the previous year. She asked me to try, for her. I did try, because I wasn’t used to someone encouraging me instead of tearing me down for my shortcomings. I didn’t make honour roll that term but I brought my average up by 20% and it only continued to rise as I stayed in her company. Don’t underestimate the positive influence you can have in someone’s life just by supporting, encouraging and building them up.

*The names of people have been changed to protect their identity. I conducted an in person interview with “Preet” and helped her put her thoughts together. She hopes that this message will help someone realize the positive impact they can have on someone facing difficult circumstances.

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